You know it has been really natural for some couples to return to the in-laws’ place regulalry for meals and simple get-together.

I know some dreaded in going back as it seemed to be poor torture.

As for me, it was initally like that.

Now, I in fact enjoyed going back.

It was a relieving sight to see the whole family get together and have a simple meal.

We just had one and both parents-in-law were very happy.

There was alot of laughter and joy and the dinner time was a bliss.

In the past, I could frankly tell you that it was absolute discomfort for me to sit at the dining table for 2 hours.

Never in my life have I had such a long dinner.
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It was my breaking of record.

Have you ever stayed in your wife’s office till 4am?

I just did a few days ago.

It was initially madness as it was my first time doing that.

However, when I come to think about it, it was a good chance for me to observe for myself why she is so busy all the time.

I think it was like those school days when you get to visit your parents’ offices and you awed in amazement.

And after that day, you got to understand your parents a little bit better.

If your wife is busy all the time, you may want to meet her for dinner and pop by her office after that.

I know it is not easy.
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I know this blog will made the men loose more money and made the ladies reading out there happier.

Imagine your husband coming home everyday with a bouquet of flowers or something that you like.

In fact, the title of the post is too exaggerating as there is hardly any real story of ladies receiving a bouquet of flower each day.

If you have this luxury, please leave a comment.

As for my wife, yes she does receive flowers regularly but definitely not once a day. Flowers are too expensive to be bought once a day.

I bought her a bouquet once a month. It can be small, medium or sometimes, large.

Many of my female friends were complaining to me that the number of romantic stuffs done by their husbands drastically dropped after their weddings.

I’m not sure how true is it. Does it happen to you as well?

Beside spending less time with each other partially because both are dead tired after a long day of work, husbands and wives took it for granted that for the fact that they are married, it is not necessary to carry on being romantic.

I beg to differ.
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Marriage issues arise from different areas, mostly from some minor misunderstanding and miscommunication.

A lot of time these issues can be resolved when they are in their infancy stage. However, many couples choose to let them pass, still remember them and let them erupt over time.

Let me give an example. Let’s say a couple quarrels, what do they normally quarrel about.

And during their quarreling, do you realise most of the times they will bring out some past matters to reinforce their point of view.

Meaning to say to justify that they are “right” and their partners are “wrong”.

In fact, do we really know who is right or wrong?

And when couples do not know how to handle such conflicts properly, alot of times this marks the end of a relationship and couples choose to go their separate ways.

This pattern of conflict management is repeated in their next relationship and they cope in the same way, meaning they go their separate ways again.
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How many of you reading this post had your marriage arranged?

I know we are already in the year 2007 but I still have friends whose parents arranged their marriage.

I remembered I had a friend in University and his father specially arranged the daughter of his clients to meet up with him.

I’m not sure it is for the best interest of his son or his company.

This is a video I saw from YouTube. The lady zapped the man away because she found him too….so you can do the same thing too: