Being very conservative Asian Chinese, our parents still do not share much about sex education with us.

And the children are expected to be taught in schools through science or some sexual education or they can figure out themselves while growing up and doing sexual experiment.

Parents still avoid talking about sex and they push the responsibilty to each other. Most parents even denied the existence of sex, letting their kids find out themselves.

Until one day it is too late and somebody gets someone preganant, this is when the dad may screamed “Don’t you know what is a condom?”

Oh, this is too late and “thanks” dad for the info.

I’m not sure if Chinese find it to be dirty and even disrespectful discussing about such topics. Disrespectful may even mean towards the gods.

I have heard about taboos of not having sex on the 1st and 15th of the lunar calendar as well as during eclipses, thunderstorms, typhoons and other extreme weather conditions.
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It has been quite a while. My Wedding Blog is about 11 months old and yesterday traffic was a breakthrough.

I believed it is a start of another level of soaring of traffic as my wedding blog has become more well-known and friends are spreading the blog address by word of mouth.

Interestingly, some readers emailed me that they only get the info of the real side of wedding and marriage only after they get to read my posts.

Wow!!! I didn’t know that my wedding blog has such deep impact on people’s lives.

I really hope daily readers will soar till over 1000 by end of September this year. Again, I want to thank my readers who have been coming back again and again to read my posts.

Thanks so much. >.<

Today’s traffic has spilled over 500!!!

10 to 20 % of traffic increase between last month and this

I was doing some research from the internet to find out what are the various “long wedding hair styles”. There are already some previous posts on bridal hair styles if you are new to my wedding blog.

In fact, I found some but the photos were not really sharp.

Anyway, I have no idea about the names of the different wedding hair styles. And to me, I think these hair styles could be the more compatible ones that Asian brides may find more suitable. (Actually, there are about over 40 photos but they are quite common and that is why I didn’t take them.)

You can visit their website at lvhairdoers.homestead.com

Have you heard of your friends wanting to party in your room after the wedding dinner?

Some of the more sensitive friends may give excuse not to party till so late as the wedding couples have proper “business” to handle that first married night.

The real reason is everyone is dog tired after one whole year of wedding preparation.

One can only think of having a good rest after the wedding dinner.

There is even no energy for hanky-panky or even sex.

The older Chinese generation think otherwise. The honeymoon suite must be filled with liveliness and noise that night. It is a taboo to have a quiet and empty room.

They believe that having a party inside the room can bring in greater wealth and prosperity for the couples.

This kind of party means, not a mas orgy, but with many people around celebrating and partying.

Despite the fact that they have such names like “teasing the bride” or “merry-making in the room”, it only meant for the good of the couples.

Normally, the younger generation will think of naughty games to tease the newly wed by playing naughty games and asking the couples embarrasing questions such as you know what.
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This is my friend, Shuling.

She has been in the beauty and wellness industry for about 3 years and have experience in speaking at makeup demonstration and doing makeup for events.

She also enjoys doing personal cosmetics shopping for her friends and colleagues.

I know she likes to share with her friends simple tips on skin care. And so?I have invited her to be one of my co-authors and she can share with you make-up and slimming tips for your big day.

Yes, 99 more bloggers to look for. 🙂

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