Making wedding works is more than preparing the wedding tasks and fulfilling them.

It is going to be tiring and frustrating!!! Very frustrating!!!

Wedding-related tasks include getting the bridal studio, contacting hotels, calling and making appointment with the wedding photographers, food tasting and many more.

These tasks are simple to do. The hardest part is how to get your soon-to-be spouse to remain supportive all the way. And not just till the wedding.

There is still a very long way to go.

I have always told brides and grooms that the mini-quarrels they have during their wedding preparation is just the tip of the iceberg and it is normal to have disagreement once in a while.

More will come along the way and in bigger quality and quantity!!!

My wife and I do have conflicts too and this is absolutely normal.

Couples who tell me over the tele-consultation that they have never argued before in their lives are abnormal.

Why having conflicts while preparing wedding is healthy?
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I have heard of many stories of couples enjoying their honeymoon period. And when the baby comes, they start to quarrel because of many unresolved issues and mismatched expectations.

They may be quarreling over whose turn it is to take care of their baby, or whose turn to wake up 4am to feed the baby, or whose turn to fork out money for the baby-sitter.

The list just goes on and on. Minor stuff like the food is too hot or the bed is not made can be trigger the volcano at home to erupt uncontrollably.

Do you want to know the number one secret how all these can be avoided instantly?

The secret lies in your pre-wedding.

Would you want to know the 7 secrets never to argue with your spouse again?

1. Use pre-wedding to understand your spouse-to-be

There are hundred and one new thing to discover about your spouse during the wedding planning stage. As time passes and you realised that “why is it my partner behaves like that?” or “why is she like this?”

It is not that your partner has changed. It is because you have yet to spend enough time seeing their private selves in the past.

Each of us has a public and a private self. Even married couples of twenty over years may not necessarily have discovered the most private aspect of their spouse.

2. Discover how both of you can cope healthily
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Many people are still asking me how is life after marriage…

I remembered on last Saturday, one of my friends asked me to join them for dinner..

I replied..”sorry..I can’t…I have promised to have dinner with my family…>.<" for me..after and before married life arel the same...but with extra commitment...responsibility... Commitment to wash the dishes as what I had promised her...but she brings out the dishes to the dining table... Commitment to set aside one day of the week to go out for a walk...no matter how busy we are... Commitment to spend 1 hour everyday to do sports or simply go for a walk no matter how busy or tired we are after work...after walking...we feel more stress-free... To me, responsibility means to hear my wife out...doesn't matter if they are grumbles...worries...word of concerns...her fears...(likewise for her, she hears me out no matter how busy she is) Responsibility to empower her...to tell her she has done her best and I will support her no matter what decision she makes... Responsibility to take good care of her...to kiss her every night before sleep...to tell her "I love you" everyday...to cuddle her...and to make sure she feels safe and protected...

Everyday is a new day for us…for us to know and understand each other better.

Everyday is a day of saying “I love you” and planting gentle kisses on each other’s cheeks and lips.

Everyday is thanking my partner for trusting me, loving me and for treating me for I really am.

There is no need to be the ideal someone that we have always wanted to be.

There is no need to be the ideal prince or princess who we once wanted to be.

There is no need to look beyond what we already have.

I know what I have always wanted is always here beside me: Love from those who love me.

I remember a story of the family of a chick.

The chick was well-taken care of by the mother hen while the rooster went out to look for food.

When the chick grew up and could move around, the mother hen brought it out of their home.

And while the mother hen and the chick were exploring the environment, the rooster’s role is like a protector, guarding his family to the extent. .. to the extent … to the extent …

of getting himself killed if it can save his family from harm…

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I want to be the rooster … >.<

He wears his spec everyday. He has no contact lenses and no intention of trying them.
Sandles+Shirts+bermudas = his attire = himself. Take out any 1 of those items from this equation, he looks weird.
He never dyes hair / highlight hair and totally disagrees with the idea of changing the hair color. His hair has been black from the day he was born. He believes being nature is beauty.

On 21June, he has done something he never did.

He DIDN’T WEAR SPEC – almost the whole day.
He DIDN’T WEAR SHIRTS+BERMS+SANDLES. Instead he wore shirts, tuexdo, pants, leather shoes.
He allowed the makeup artist to highlight his hair and most importantly, his hair went against the gravity. His 1st and ever new hairstyle -the korean actor’s hairstyle. @,@

How does he look like?

One word to sum up – DASHING!

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