Many people are still asking me how is life after marriage…

I remembered on last Saturday, one of my friends asked me to join them for dinner..

I replied..”sorry..I can’t…I have promised to have dinner with my family…>.<" for me..after and before married life arel the same...but with extra commitment...responsibility... Commitment to wash the dishes as what I had promised her...but she brings out the dishes to the dining table... Commitment to set aside one day of the week to go out for a walk...no matter how busy we are... Commitment to spend 1 hour everyday to do sports or simply go for a walk no matter how busy or tired we are after work...after walking...we feel more stress-free... To me, responsibility means to hear my wife out...doesn't matter if they are grumbles...worries...word of concerns...her fears...(likewise for her, she hears me out no matter how busy she is) Responsibility to empower her...to tell her she has done her best and I will support her no matter what decision she makes... Responsibility to take good care of her...to kiss her every night before sleep...to tell her "I love you" everyday...to cuddle her...and to make sure she feels safe and protected...