After fetching the bride, it was another hour of driving from one end of the Singapore to the other end. Now, the bridal car was occupied by 3 passengers: My groomsman, my bride as well as me.

The return journey was filled with laughter and stories of what had actually happened outside in the bride’s house. (Remember at that point in time, the bride missed all the actions happening outside the room.)

When I reached my house, I was surprised that some of my relatives were anxiously for the wedding couple to arrive.

Now, it was almost 10am and the next phase of our wedding day unfolded…with commencing of tea ceremony for the relatives of the groom

Many people have asked me what difference is there in life before and after my wedding.

Seriously, there is not much of difference.

For me, I’m still going to treat my wife just like how I have treated her when we were in courtship, showering with love, care and concern plus gifts or in fact more gifts because she had become my wife and deserve to be treated even better.

The slight difference that I feel is that I have to be more commited to our relationship in more aspects such as financial, mental and health.

What do I meant by that?

I have to remember to prepare my wife’s breakfast when she woke up late.

I have to remember to draw the curtains when the sunlight is too bright so that she can continue sleeping.

I have to keep on reminding her to drink lots of water (or most of the time, fill 1/4 of her cup with water cos she can’t drink much at one go), to eat her Vitamin C pill and to go for jogging so that she can reduce her stress and increase her strength.
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The hotel gave us MANY surprises before our wedding. Surprises = shocks!!!

In February 06, we contacted the Business manager, P and she left in June 06.
It was during this time, the 2nd coordinator, S emailed us telling us she will take over P. The hassle we went through was we have to brief the new coordinator everything we had discussed with P.

One month before our wedding, we tried contacting S but couldn’t locate her after many attempts. No response to emailsthat we sent to her and no call from her. Then, suddenly, V emailed us telling us she was the new coordinator as S had left.

V told us she was temporarily on leave for a very long time and the Director that we contacted told us she left for studies. We kept on hearing different versions of stories.

S left about 1 month after she took up the job.

We were really displeased with the hotel’s service at that point in time and my wife was terribly affected. We lodged a complaint to the Director level, only to realise the Director had resigned recently too.

Oh my!!! Seems like everyone was leaving the hotel.
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These are the gifts that we bought back from Korea. Enjoy watching >.<

Wedding day is the most important day of one’s life. After you have spent the entire year planning, of course you want everything on your BIG Day to go well.

As for me, I am thankful for my helpers who helped me really alot on my wedding day. My brothers helped me in things like munching chilli in the morning, to tying my shoelaces when the banquet coordinator was briefing me about the details to helping me coordinate my wedding dinner among all helpers.

In summary, if your wedding day is coming soon, do take note of these roles (These are the roles my helpers had during our wedding day):
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