I know this blog will made the men loose more money and made the ladies reading out there happier.
Imagine your husband coming home everyday with a bouquet of flowers or something that you like.
In fact, the title of the post is too exaggerating as there is hardly any real story of ladies receiving a bouquet of flower each day.
If you have this luxury, please leave a comment.
As for my wife, yes she does receive flowers regularly but definitely not once a day. Flowers are too expensive to be bought once a day.
I bought her a bouquet once a month. It can be small, medium or sometimes, large.
Many of my female friends were complaining to me that the number of romantic stuffs done by their husbands drastically dropped after their weddings.
I’m not sure how true is it. Does it happen to you as well?
Beside spending less time with each other partially because both are dead tired after a long day of work, husbands and wives took it for granted that for the fact that they are married, it is not necessary to carry on being romantic.
Marriage issues arise from different areas, mostly from some minor misunderstanding and miscommunication.
A lot of time these issues can be resolved when they are in their infancy stage. However, many couples choose to let them pass, still remember them and let them erupt over time.
Let me give an example. Let’s say a couple quarrels, what do they normally quarrel about.
And during their quarreling, do you realise most of the times they will bring out some past matters to reinforce their point of view.
Meaning to say to justify that they are “right” and their partners are “wrong”.
In fact, do we really know who is right or wrong?
And when couples do not know how to handle such conflicts properly, alot of times this marks the end of a relationship and couples choose to go their separate ways.
This pattern of conflict management is repeated in their next relationship and they cope in the same way, meaning they go their separate ways again. Continue Reading »
Having conflicts are natural. It is healthy to have conflicts.
“What? Are you nuts?”
Looking back at my fist 9 months of marriage life, it has not been easy.
I’m not saying that we are in crisis or any similar form. Thank goodness we are not.
While looking at the days we have walked through together and effort we have put in, I could say we can score about 6 upon 10. (Still lots of room for improvement, you know.)
What we have done so far:
1. A gentle stroll round our house
I remember that we made an effort to stroll around the estate every night without fail.
These are personal times we could catch up with each other.
There are so many things to talk about. I just don’t understand how come older couples find each other bored. Maybe they just don’t want to talk. Just maybe.
Every day there are so many things going on. I just can’t wait to tell my wife about it when I reach home.
However, I must confess that it is not easy to be consistent. There are times we are very busy or one of us is busy. There are times that we simply forgot or are not bothered about it at all.
We need each other to constantly remind us now and then.
I saw a post from my friend Kloudiia and she has blogged about “A New Age Husband“.
Here are 37 things a Sensitive and New Age Husband can do: 1. Massage her everyday 2. Fetch her from work 3. Send her to work 4. Help mark her school work 5. Do house chores 6. Cook for her 7. Wash her clothes 8. Iron her clothes 9. Do marketing 10. Take care of the babies Continue Reading »
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