You know it has been really natural for some couples to return to the in-laws’ place regulalry for meals and simple get-together.

I know some dreaded in going back as it seemed to be poor torture.

As for me, it was initally like that.

Now, I in fact enjoyed going back.

It was a relieving sight to see the whole family get together and have a simple meal.

We just had one and both parents-in-law were very happy.

There was alot of laughter and joy and the dinner time was a bliss.

In the past, I could frankly tell you that it was absolute discomfort for me to sit at the dining table for 2 hours.

Never in my life have I had such a long dinner.
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Lately, you may have noticed a drop in the number of posts. I apologised for it as I was really busy working my job and building my dream.

“My New Wedding e-Book Cover” >.<

My new Wedding Planning e-book is about to be launched soon and I’m doing another project with some very good friends of mine.

I would like to talk about these male friends I have. They are all married and we all have a common dream.

We all work towards the common dream of giving our wives a better and more comfortable life.

I remember Warren Buffett, the 2nd richest man in the world once expressed in the press conference how he had changed after becoming a very wealthy man.

He mentioned he didn’t change much. It was just that his wife lives slightly better.

Marriage life has definitely changed me for the better.
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I wasn’t well for these past few days and I was down with flu and slight fever.

I’m grateful to my wife for skipping her dinner even though she was really very hungry and had not had her lunch.

The wait at the clinic was an hour and you know that when a person is ill, an hour long wait can feel like 5 hours or more.

While making my way to the clinic and feeling her warm hand in mine, I remembered our wedding vows very vividly.

It goes something like this:

“Male:
I _____, take you ______, to be my wedded wife. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish ’till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.

Female:
I, _____, take you ______, to be my wedded husband. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, ’till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.”

Sometimes I wonder how many of us do really remember the wedding vows we took, except to bluntly just follow them word by word.
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It was my breaking of record.

Have you ever stayed in your wife’s office till 4am?

I just did a few days ago.

It was initially madness as it was my first time doing that.

However, when I come to think about it, it was a good chance for me to observe for myself why she is so busy all the time.

I think it was like those school days when you get to visit your parents’ offices and you awed in amazement.

And after that day, you got to understand your parents a little bit better.

If your wife is busy all the time, you may want to meet her for dinner and pop by her office after that.

I know it is not easy.
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I know this blog will made the men loose more money and made the ladies reading out there happier.

Imagine your husband coming home everyday with a bouquet of flowers or something that you like.

In fact, the title of the post is too exaggerating as there is hardly any real story of ladies receiving a bouquet of flower each day.

If you have this luxury, please leave a comment.

As for my wife, yes she does receive flowers regularly but definitely not once a day. Flowers are too expensive to be bought once a day.

I bought her a bouquet once a month. It can be small, medium or sometimes, large.

Many of my female friends were complaining to me that the number of romantic stuffs done by their husbands drastically dropped after their weddings.

I’m not sure how true is it. Does it happen to you as well?

Beside spending less time with each other partially because both are dead tired after a long day of work, husbands and wives took it for granted that for the fact that they are married, it is not necessary to carry on being romantic.

I beg to differ.
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