Holiday is a big break to look forward to, especially we have planned for it for so long.

from vietvoyage.com

It is a reward we give to ourselves for working really hard for the past few months and it is something we tell ourselves we deserve it.

Taking a holiday is also a time for us to disconnect from our daily routine and an escape from our stress in work or from home.

We feel married couples should take a break to make a getaway. It does not really matter if it is a short one lasting for a few days or a very long one that may ast for a few weeks to a month.

My parent has always told me to plan an oversea trip once a year to see the world and not be confined like a frog in a well. There are far more things to be explored beyond the edge of the well.

So what does it takes to plan for a holiday with your spouse?

Agreement to a Common Destination:

It is not as easy as it sounds. It takes weeks of discussion to come to a common consensus where your next trip will be. Husband and wife will have different opinions based on different perceptions and beliefs.
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Dear all,

Now Im back in my hometown. Now Im sorting out my photos I took in Vietnam and will most probably be posting tonight.

Had to get adjusted back to Singapore’s life again.

Meanwhile, see you tonight. 🙂

I will be away to Ho Chin Minh, Vietnam till Friday.

It is a short trip. There is nowhere we can change money in Singapore.

The common practice is to bring US or Singapore dollars to change them to “dong” in Vietnam as their currency value is too small.

At this point in time, I think it can be quite warm in Ho Chin Minh. Hmmm…no difference from Singapore, I guess.

I got to rush to airport pretty soon.

Meanwhile, bye for now and do come back for my posts on the photos I will be taking in Vietnam on Friday.

Meanwhile, you take care and can carry on reading some of the posts below which I did today at about 10am, Singapore’s Time and today is a Monday. 🙂

It was tough to juggle time between work, friends and family.

It was not easy to manage the very limited time that we have. Each of us only have 24 hours per day.

Yesterday, I made a special trip to support a very good friend of mine who was holding an art exhibition for her oil paintings. She was in fact selling her paintings for charity and the oil paintings do not come cheap.

The price range was around S$400 to $600.

Other friends and I specially went to the art exhibition venue just to support her and we all skipped our lunch so that we could be on time.

Her oil painting was really fantastic and we kept on priaising that she did an excellent work.
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Lately a reader and also a friend of mine emailed me asking for advice on choosing a credible and reliable fengshui master.

from beifan.com

Fengshui master, in our Chinese culture, helps to choose auspicious dates based on the wedding couples and their parents birthdates, birth years and Eastern zodiac signs.

In some families, choosing the right date is a life-and-death issue and even if it may fall on some weekdays, some families will go ahead as planned even though it may cause inconvenience to others relatives and friends who are working.

Beside choosing dates, the fengshui master will set aside auspicious timings when the groom has to fetch the bride, when the bride has to return home and when the tea-ceremony has to start.

There are many practices to follow for the believers.

I have heard that for Teochew, the groom has to leave the house at 4am in the morning so that he can fetch the bride at 5am. I think it is quite crazy.

Again it is a custom to the Teochew which must be followed and I respect that.

In fact, for me, I don’t really believe such beliefs.

There are two main reasons that wedding couples seek the advice from fengshui masters.

One of them is the wedding couples truly believe in it.

The other reason is to satisfy the mothers and to stop the constant nagging from them.

Nagging from mothers could be more potent than any other forms of stressor.

For us, we did this so that my mother-in-law can be convinced that the date we choose is the “right” one.

Surprisingly, the fengshui master we consulted advised us that the dates do not really matter at all.
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