Everyday is a new day for us…for us to know and understand each other better.

Everyday is a day of saying “I love you” and planting gentle kisses on each other’s cheeks and lips.

Everyday is thanking my partner for trusting me, loving me and for treating me for I really am.

There is no need to be the ideal someone that we have always wanted to be.

There is no need to be the ideal prince or princess who we once wanted to be.

There is no need to look beyond what we already have.

I know what I have always wanted is always here beside me: Love from those who love me.

I remember a story of the family of a chick.

The chick was well-taken care of by the mother hen while the rooster went out to look for food.

When the chick grew up and could move around, the mother hen brought it out of their home.

And while the mother hen and the chick were exploring the environment, the rooster’s role is like a protector, guarding his family to the extent. .. to the extent … to the extent …

of getting himself killed if it can save his family from harm…

… … …

… … …

I want to be the rooster … >.<

After fetching the bride, it was another hour of driving from one end of the Singapore to the other end. Now, the bridal car was occupied by 3 passengers: My groomsman, my bride as well as me.

The return journey was filled with laughter and stories of what had actually happened outside in the bride’s house. (Remember at that point in time, the bride missed all the actions happening outside the room.)

When I reached my house, I was surprised that some of my relatives were anxiously for the wedding couple to arrive.

Now, it was almost 10am and the next phase of our wedding day unfolded…with commencing of tea ceremony for the relatives of the groom

Many people have asked me what difference is there in life before and after my wedding.

Seriously, there is not much of difference.

For me, I’m still going to treat my wife just like how I have treated her when we were in courtship, showering with love, care and concern plus gifts or in fact more gifts because she had become my wife and deserve to be treated even better.

The slight difference that I feel is that I have to be more commited to our relationship in more aspects such as financial, mental and health.

What do I meant by that?

I have to remember to prepare my wife’s breakfast when she woke up late.

I have to remember to draw the curtains when the sunlight is too bright so that she can continue sleeping.

I have to keep on reminding her to drink lots of water (or most of the time, fill 1/4 of her cup with water cos she can’t drink much at one go), to eat her Vitamin C pill and to go for jogging so that she can reduce her stress and increase her strength.
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