Emotional well-being…from a guy’s perspective
As the important day draws nearer,? my heart pound faster…my anxiety shoots up…my headache worsens…due to many reasons….
Today is a bad day – Ju
Not because I have a fight with my husband-to-be; not because I am having PMS; not because I get a scolding from my boss. The causes of bad day are:
– receiving many disapproved facial expressions
– never ending interrogative questions on a Saturday night
– being bombarded with a series of questions
Qn1: Gown
?Have you book an appointment with the tailor so that we can take a look at her designs? If I don?t like her designs, I still have to search for other designs? CAN YOU HURRY UP? Are you really THAT busy?… I don?t understand why there are so few gowns? designs. They?re just either spaghetti strap, tube or so low cut! How can I wear those?!… ?
Happy 2-months Birthday for My Wedding Blog
My Wedding Blog will be celebrating her 2 month birthday on 1/10/06 and I want to thank my readers from all over the world. I have received emails that my blog has benefitted them in different ways and more people have added me to their “favourites”.
In the month of September 06, 636 out of 893 visitors added me as favourites ad that is about 71.2%.
Reality practice may be better than marital preparation course
Everyday, we learnt to give and take. Sometimes, she gives way to me. Sometimes, I give way to her. If none of us wants to, we sit together and come to a compromise.
Marital preparation course does teaches this, doesn’t it? We do actually practice it. Not a perfect score yet. I doubt we can get. But we will always try to improve ourselves and learn to properly communicate between us.
Hong Kong Wedding Custom part 3 – Kua series
In Singapore and much according to Chinese customs, the bride has to wear a Chinese traditional wedding “kua“. There will be 2 times that she will be wearing. One during the photoshoot and the other on the wedding day when the bride returns home from the groom’s house for the tea-serving ceremony.
?My future mother-in-law knew how to see what is a good “kua”. She is very particular about the worksmanship and the design. Her mother (my fiancee’s grandma) used to make “kua” for a living when she was young.
My mother-in-law was very disappointed with Singapore’s bridal studio’s kua and she rated it as poor.?
The kua that my fiancee got looked quite old as it had been worn by many wedding couples in the past. There were some small tears, but the staff reassured us it will be mended. She also said that the holes would be too small to be seen by the camera during the photoshoot. Is this statement supposed to make us feel safe?