awake…my laptop got infected by “worm” a moment ago and the processing was as slow as a turtle…

after marriage…we would love to turn in early..we can’t longer sleep as when we like…

we tried to sleep at the same time so we can chit chat and casually what we had encountered for the day…we will sleep after we give each other assurance that the coming day is going to be a better one…some encouragement before dozing off can help relieve some stress…

(now, the adaware programme is still scanning my laptop for any spyware. You can click here if you need any anti-spyware programme. It is absolutely free.)

I’m dozing off and my eyes are heavy.

Yeah..the scan progress is about 88% complete…got to getr eady to go to bed…goodnight all >.<

Many of my readers emailed me what is life like after marriage.

In fact, I’m not even sure what the right way married couple should feel after marriage.

For me, I feel comfortable and glad that the wedding was finally over. We had painstakingly planned for one year plus and everything ended in less than a day.

At this stage, I feel really comfortable with the shared life I had with my wife. I tried to minimise changes in our daily habits. We still carry on to be who we are and continue to do what we do.

There is definitely some shared roles and responsibilites like washing clothes, vacuuming and mobbing the floor and washing dishes after every meal.

For me, I also learnt about respect and communication.

Respect in the sense respect that she is tired after work and I just keep her company.

Communication in the sense we share with each other our thoughts, problems and challenges so we can better understand each other and learn to cope together.

Two heads are definitely better than one, aren’t they? >.<

In this campaign, we would like to use this blog as a journal?for anyone

to share with us your inner thoughts?share with us something you?ve always wanted to tell, your innermost secrets?

Anyone can submit their views or opinions in this blog and we will post them up…

No name will be displayed to ensure anonymity.

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Hmmm..right now I’m showcasing the photos taken by my photographer, Ant.

Here is his website https://antevy.com/

and a sample of his fantatsic photos

from antevy.com

Feel free to browse

I paid S$1800 for the whole package…not sure if he did increase the price this year…>.<

“I will do my best to give you whatever you deserve…” it was a statement that this man once told a woman.

Though they had only been married for barely 12 years before cancer took this man away from mother and son, the man had left a deep impact in how to love the wife in the son.

When I looked back these 13 years after this man had passed away, I will never forget what my mom told me about this man…yes, you are right…this great man is non other than my dad.

Despite him not being with me (physically), my mother had told me of great stories of how my dad had taken care of her…not by monetary terms….or material needs..but the endless love and concern that he had showered over both me and mom…

He once told my mom that though he may not be very rich, but he swore to my mom that he would do his very best to give what my mom deserves….what does she deserves is not important…

how would you feel if the man you love tell you this statement one day?