How many of you reading this post had your marriage arranged?

I know we are already in the year 2007 but I still have friends whose parents arranged their marriage.

I remembered I had a friend in University and his father specially arranged the daughter of his clients to meet up with him.

I’m not sure it is for the best interest of his son or his company.

This is a video I saw from YouTube. The lady zapped the man away because she found him too….so you can do the same thing too:

from onewed.com

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37 Ways to Deal with Mother-In-Law

37 Ways to Live With Your Spouse Daily

37 Reasons why Wedding is Cancelled

37 Reasons why Housework Must be Done

37 Reasons Why Men get Married

37 Reasons Why Women Won?t Want to Get Married

37 Things A Sensitive and New Age Husband can Do

Who do you ask when you need a solution to your wedding problem?

Again, there are many aspects of the wedding.

There are problems related to relationship, families, finances and so on.

1. Relationship problems:
Do you ask someone with a healthy relationship or someone with a screwed up relationship?

Do you ask someone who has been married a few times or who is doing whatever it takes to solidify and maintain her marriage?

Do you ask someone who has not even gone through any relationship at all?

Actually it all depends on the mindset you have at that point in time.

I know it is very painful to be experiencing relationship problems especially some are on the verge of break-ups. Others may be confused of where to go on from there.

If you ask friends, most will say “It is fine and there is nothing to worry.”

You may end up felling unheard and more traumatised and tired, physically and mentally.

If you are facing such problems, there are local helplines which do not require you to divulge your names. The calls are confidential and there is always a professional helper or a trained worker to man the call.
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Do you know what you got married in the first place?

What is the purpose?

Is it to get married because your friends are doing so?

Or is it to protect her for eternality?

I know my reason of getting married.

Do you?

Are there times you just want to give up your relationship because of some misunderstandings?

Are there times you thought for a moment you married the wrong person because you can’t stand her weird habits?

Are there times that you just feel so hopeless and helpless because you are overwhelmed by the responsiblity of a spouse and a parent?

One of the first reasons for my marriage is because I love my wife and I know she is the one. The other is to protect and support her for eternality (so she never need to work again and can chase her own dream).

I need reasons to forge forward of her in times of difficulties, challenges and conflicts.

I need these reasons to forgive her and to support this family.

I need reasons to take care of her daily from making sure she has fruits to eat to ensuring that she has drunk enough water.

There are times when conflicts and arguments arise, I need these reasons just simply to forgive her.

There are times I took the beatings for her carelessness and I chose to forget simply because for these reasons.

9 months into marriage and I can honestly tell you that it is not easy.
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We?re launching a new feature today called ?Your Wedding? where we?ll get to know a little bit about the details of your wedding.

At your own comfort level, we?ll ask you to share various info like which bridal studios you?re using, which hotel you are holding your banquet, etc.
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