I were experiencing a mixture of feelings at this point in time…sadness…anxiety…gladness…

sad that a great artist could no longer draw and share his wonderful art pieces with the world…

anxious as in unsure how my colleague will be feeling when sending off her rbother for the final time…

glad that there won’t be any more suffering for this noble person…

my colleague’s brother had some illness and three days ago, there were a relapse and he left the same night…

it reminded me of how my father passed away 12 years ago due to lung cancer and he got a brain tumor growing behind his right eye on the day he died…

as much as we wanted him to go peacefully so that he no longer need to suffer, I long for me to be with me…to see me graduate…to see me get married…to be there for me during my greatest lfie transitions…

I can’t forget…as my llife unfolds, I have to remember him …vividly in my mind….reminding myself how much I have missed him…

no one knew I teared a couple of times when I remembered my dad on our wedding day

Sudden death had constantly reminded me of the fragility of life…as much as we want to live to the full life expectancy, who can guarantee it?

All I can do right now…is to llive a full life as if it is my last day of my death…cos no one can know what will happen tomorrow. can you?

Hmmm…have been thinking how to benefit future readers who are using my blog to get the necessary information that they want.

Info such as how to get the best deals from hotels, where to get wedding customary items in the least time and what to do for wedding customs and many more.

I think what I will do is blog on alternate topics, wedding and honey moon in order to satisfy the prior groups as well as friends who want to know how was my Korea trip.

From today onwards, this blog will be updated daily. So continue to read my blog. If you know the info will benefit any one, feel free to send them the link.

Though challenging. planning a wedding should be fun and smooth, especially when we are all working. So, I hope My Wedding Blog can continue to benefit as many people as possible.

OKie…off to get ready to sort my photos again…I took 1989 photos in Korea during those 12 days…

The last post that I had was done 2 days ago. The anxiety, excitement and nervousness that I had was hard to be described. The feelings that was swarming inside gave me another sleepless night.

On 10/12 (Sunday) 3am, I was still awake. Still tossling in bed at 3.45am. Oh my, I am going to look like a pand groom. @.@

At 6.25am, 5 minutes before my alarm clock rang, Normally, I have the tendency to try to sleep till even the very last few seconds. Today was different. I immediately woke up even though I still have about 5 minutes more.

I saw all the lights on the house. My mom was busy preparing setting up the “dragon and phoenix” candles, making tea and cutting the cakes for breakfast for us as well as the guests.
I quickly bathed and get dressed up by 7am. My first brother arrived at 7am. Subsequently, all arrive by 8am and we had a shot before we go out.

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On 1st December, we went for final fitting. Our appointments was at 7pm and we reached at 7pm sharp. But the studio was over-packed with 4 pairs of wedding couples waiting to do their final fitting.

By the time when it was our turn, it was already 8.30pm and we wasted 1.5 hour of waiting time.

It was really chaotic in the studio and the studio was under-staffed. Only 2 staff taking care of 2 couples at any one time. Plus, some wedding couples brought along their siblings, nieces, nephews and parents….oh my…it was as if the studio was going to explode.

There were couples complaining of their long waiting and there were constant apologies from the manager. Sigh…couldn’t really believe what had happened….”over-schedule

So the moral of the story is “Never over-packed the appointments”!!!

While waiting, I was super-bored. So I took some photos of the shoes my fiancee will be wearing on our big day!

Lately, my friend Kloudiia had started a “Love Stories Writing Project” and some readers of her blog had submitted their love stories of how they met their love ones. The winner is me. >.< I will take it as an early wedding present from her. "Thanks alot, Kloudiia." I will be bringing my darling to dine at Fullerton Hotel!!! >.< Really exciting! I have received the S$100 food voucher from her by mail today.

The envelope that contains the voucher

The $100 food vouchers

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