Relationship is interestingly funny, in the sense there is hundred and one way to start a relationship.

To have a strong foundation in your after-wedding life, we need to start off from how the relationship is formed in the first place.

A friend was kind enough to share with me that how her brother-in-law started off as her tutor.

Others mentioned they started off when they were in the same faculty in colleges or Universities.

from motorcycletime.com

In fact, hostel stays in Universities had allowed infinite opportunities for opposite genders to spark off their romance.

Last year, I attended 9 wedding dinners in all (including solemnisation).

Many of my friends who got married last year started off as acquantainces in hostels. They started to meet in groups for meals in the hostel’s canteens and the group size gradually dwindled to a size of two.

Freedom, lots of it, is available in hostels without mom and dad watching over and this gave them freedom to plan their nights out and return hall late.

In fact, from what I understood the alternate floor stay for different gender was done on purpose for the obvious reason.

Hmmm, what about those who don’t stay in hostels?
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I have difficulty searching for really nice pictures from the internet. As I was browsing through the websites, I was really amazed by how many different kind of hairstyles available for ladies.

My focus here is Asian women as most of my readers are from Asia.

from celebrityseduhairstyle.com

I learnt from my wife that the latest fad is always in Hong Kong and Taiwan. Singapore’s fashion and style lag behind by a season or two.

I am really shocked when crowds of women thronged the shopping floor during sales season, only to realise what they were purchasing are junks that other countries won’t want.

Anyway, ladies still sweep the shops clean while their boyfriends or husbands lined the entrance like part-time security guards for the shops.

Back to hairstyle, I am now convinced that men should take interest into what women like. Not all women, but at least what your girlfriend or wife like.

To understand them one layer deeper, men should also know what they dislikes or love.

I was watching this Chinese drama on TV 8 and it was about the difference between men and women.

It says that “if women understand a man, they can understand all. But not the other way round.”

Women are complex beings with mood swings far more unpredictable than the most fickle weather. What they like may become to what they hate most.

Interestingly, fashion sense changes according to their lifespan and stage growth.

I personally feel that the clothings that women wear, no matter how revealing or fully cladded, must magnify the personality of the wearer many times over. Don’t wear something just because your friends are wearing them.
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Hair-do is the key essential to a lady’s image. And that is why they spent hundred of dollars every a month or two to give themselves a new look.

from artofstu.com

I am really fascinated by the different hairstyle I am seeing and how hair styles move and evolve with fashion trends.

In any case, I also realised trends do revert to those of olden days with new add-on ideas.

When a man got married, there must be many embracing of lady’s culture.

Be encouraging when she decided to cut her hair short and have a new look.

Be assuring when she couldn’t fit into a dress she bought many years ago.

Be patient when she was mesmerised by the sales in shops that sell anything from dresses to shoes to jewellery.

When a man and a woman stay together, there bound to be clashed in values, beliefs, practices from the past twenty or thirty years before marriage.

Do give each other space to adjust to the new environment as well as physical space for your wife’s old clothes plus future new clothes.
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As a groom that time, I felt that the make-up of my wife is very important. In addition, the wedding gowns she chose, the shoes she was wearing, her bridal hairstyle, her hair accessory were important factors to how both of us look on the aisle during march in.

from takungpao.com

It is not to say because I wanted to look good and that is why she had to look good.

It should be the other way: Because my wife looked pretty, that is why I looked smart.

As a groom, I felt that we had to play our part in not just being physically there, but also assuring and giving opinions how our brides looked in different make-up and hairstyle.

Emotionally supporting your wife is very important too.

Alot of times, just mere mentioning that “You do look pretty in this” or “You looked better in that” makes the bridal experience more pleasant.

I remembered I had an email from a bride who asked for my opinion if she should forgo the gown her family members disallowed her to wear. However, it was the same gown her husband chose and that was why she was caught in between.

As much as she wanted to go along with her family’s decision, she also wanted to wear something her husband had personally chose for her.
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Now you have seen the earlier post on bridal hairstyle, here are some more bridal hairstyles from other websites.