“My Wedding Blog” has come far. It is still a relatively young blog.

I started it in August 2006 as a medium for self-expression of inner thoughts and feelings and at the same time, I wanted to blog every wedding-planning details, no matter sad or happy.

I have done 6 revamps to my site for the past 9 months and for those of you who have been with me all these whiles knew how much pain I had gone through to get this wedding blog up.

My Wedding Blog almost died in March 07 when I wanted to give up as I found myself not having enough time spent with my family.

Many readers like you emailed me to hang on there and retain “My Wedding Blog” because they were still planning their weddings half-way. Others felt that the blog must stay so future brides can benefit.

I think the main motivation for me to continue blogging is so that brides as well as grooms can benefit.

My Wedding Blog is different and unqiue in the sense that it tells about the “ugly” side of wedding.

Unlike commercial wedding websites which only show-case the luxurious and lavish wedding lifetyle, My Wedding Blog also shares about the emotional turmoils any wedding couple can and will most likely go through from before marriage to after.

Marriage life is never always a bed of roses. There are thorns underneath too.

Now, My Wedding Blog has about 300 to 400 unique readers each day, about 200 subscribers and 41 Community Members. The numbers are still growing as you are reading.

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I will continue to do my best to add value to my readers. I promise.

Wedding-planning, despite being the most joyous event of the lifetime, could be very stressful.

In addition to this stress, there could be work stress, family stress and many more.

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I remembered I was totally stressed out during my wedding planning period last year that I almost broke down. I’m not sure if I’m entering depression stage but this was real to me.

I know some wedding couples could be stressed out too and they are not aware of it. To add more impact, they give each other more stress, hoping that each other can understand them.

A fair amount of stress is important to ensure your wedding plan is according to what you have planned. Too much pressure may cause you to end up as an unhappy bride or groom or even to the extent of calling the wedding off.

One of my readers emailed me pleading for help. She felt alone because the groom was in overseas and not supportive. She felt that she was the one planning the wedding. Moreover, the in-laws were setting many unrealistic expectations such as “forcing” her to carry out in the exact manner they wanted.

There was no say in the bride at all and she felt like calling off the wedding.

This was not the only one such email I received. There were a few more like this. Some brides managed to cope better after that. Others cancelled their weddings.

So how did I cope with my stress while planning my wedding?
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If your hubby is earning enough to support both of you even if you are not working, I want to send you my congratulation.

Normally after a wedding, the savings of the newly-wed depletes (or even in deificit) so much that it may take a few years for them to recover.

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Traditionally, the role of a husband has always been the bread winner of the family. However, the role of a wife has evolved over the years as families nowadays can have two sources of income. One is from the the man, the other is from the woman.

The earning power of women have increased dramatically such that some women are earning as much as their husbands, if not more.

However, deep down inside, most women have the natural instinct of mothering a child still lie deeply in their subconscious.

Many women, if given a choice, will still choose taking care of their children full-time over keeping a job even if it is a highly-paid one.

Many times, such decision is not easy to make as there are other factors to be taken into consideration such as the earning power of the other significant half.

I remembered my mother wanted to quit her job soon after I was born so as to take care of me. She doesn’t believe in entrusting her own child into some domestic helper.

She rather trust herself.
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One of the things we are concerned about is Choosing Wedding Favors, a gesture of appreciation to the guests who are willing to take time to attend and shower their heartfelt blessings to us.

When deciding what kind of weddign favors to present to our valued guests, the following points may be helpful:

Pricing

Wedding planning involves proper financial planning and budgetting. Wedding favors cost can add up to a substantial amount, and needs to be worked out as soon as you start the wedding cost planning.

Choose a wedding favor that suit your budgetting size, always allow cost expansion (additional charges) for wedding favors. Wedding favors cost may be risen by the increase of guests added into your guest list in the last minute.

Theme

Decide on a theme if you are choosing to customise and personalise your wedding favors. Customisation requires a longer lead time, therefore, you may need to work out a theme as soon as you have decided on a venue.

Theme can be worked around with Color Themes (pink, blue, multi-color etc) , Ambience Themes (Romantic, Exotic, Fun, Wacky, Dreamy, Zen etc), Season Themes (Winter, Autumn, Spring, Summer etc), Style Themes (Simplistic, Loud, Contemporary etc). It’s your wedding, you call the shots and decide what theme you want to engage.

Types of Wedding Favors

The size of your budget will decide on the wedding favors choices. For more economical favors, you may consider using the favors provided by your venue vendor, which are normally at a minimal fee, or complimentary.
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Some brides emailed me asking if I can convert some of my useful wedding blog posts into wedding articles.

They want to print it out as reference (so that they can bring along with them in their bags), others want to email to their friends.

I say “why not?”.

So, Here is my link to Wedding Articles.