I know it is hard to get the music that you want for your wedding night.

It is tough to source for the right type of music for the right type of ambience and atmosphere.

from lovemusiclovedance.com

This wedding music link allows you to select the music and listen to them for free.

It is really useful so that we won’t end up getting the wrong songs.

Sometimes, we thought that we wanted that particular song, and only to realise it sounded otherwise.

Here is the wedding music link.

I saw these two interesting blog posts on the wedidng photos.

These wedding photos are digitally stored in one wedding photo frame.

It is like a tablet, but of a smaller version.

I can imagine how much inconvenience is spared from carrying the bulky and heavy and big wedding photos albums around.

You can read more about the products in these two blogs: “our one heart” and “something old, something new”.

Lately, I realise from other foreign wedding blogs that it is a worldwide trend that the wedding couple is stressful during the planning period…

According to my opinion and my experience, these are the 2 categories that I have found out.

Common concerns for bride:
1. Wondering if they have made the right choice?
2. Coping with the parents (especially the mother’s expectation)
3. Coping with the stress that comes from work and planning the wedding
4. Concern of their weight and facial look
5. Concern with new adaptation to the new family

Common concerns for groom:
1. Money
2. Coping with the stress that comes from work and planning the wedding
3. Concern about relationship between wife-to-be and mother

From my planning wedding experience, thes concerns are unique to each of us because we are all unique.

Sometimes, depending on couples, some are able to cope alone. Other couples cope as a pair.

My experience was I do cope alone because I have the habit of solving problems myself and I try not to let it affect my family, including my wife.

Sometimes, such way of coping is not good and this is what I find out in the end.

I believe that couple should be able to confide in each other, sharing the burden of the problems.
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Just received a news that the doctor says “got to be prepared for the worst”.

A lot of thoughts and feelings rush through me now.

Know these few days, the topics had been quite heavy for some of you.

from www.infinitech-studios.com

I apologise for that. A wedding blog is supposed to be fun and loving.

Just like what we think marriage is.

Unfortunately, it is never true.

For those who are preparing your wedding or could be in the final lap know what I mean.

Planning wedding is full of hurdles. Lots of ups and downs.

Family conflicts. Different practices. Lots of expectations, visible or unseen.

I’m sure this wedding preparation journey had made you understand your partner better…

Knowing how he thinks, he works, his fears, his yearnings and so on.

Not to worry..there is an eternal time to learn about him.

(When I say him, I am referring to both genders. >.<)

At this point in time, behind my mind, I am thinking, dying is just like queuing up.

Friends queued up to get married.

Did you realise that alot of such times is also the times our grandparents grow really old and start to go too?
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I just got this message from daphne…

“Hi.. i am so glad to b
able to find ur blog again.i previously save ur url in my com n my bro
made my com crash. Thus losin all datas.. rali v glad 2 hv ur url again by
chance. hehe. ur blog is a gd guide 4 me..!! =)”

“Hi Dahpne,

Sorry to hear that your computer had crashed. Did you do a backup of all the important wedding info you had gathered?

Could be frustrating when we lose our info.

I remembered during my wedding preparation, I saved all my datas in 3 places: my PC, my thumbdrive and my portable hard disk.

It is better to play safe.

I’m really glad you came back.

To reward a loyal reader like you, let me know what info you need and I will do my best to assist.

Don’t forget to tell your friends about this resourceful wedding blog! >.< Cheers, Jhong Ren"