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Archive for February, 2007

Dating After Married

I personally feel that we still need to go for dating even after married. Time still has to be set aside for each other so that we can spend some time with each other.

Before going to in-law’s house on day 2, we popped by Cafe Cartel to de-stress. 5 days of holidays were meant for us to forget about work. However, house-visiting was tiring as we had to travel to many places in these few days. So holidays were even busier than working days.

At Cafe Cartel, we sat and chit-chat. Personally, I’m an avid photographer and I started snapping photos of my wife and her with her chocolate cake and the caramel latte. It was a short time but it was wonderful for the fact we spent time together.

Yup, and I included the photo of the bouquet of flower I gave her for Valentine’s Day. Sweet Pink roses…>.<


Chinese New Year Reunion for Newly Wed, Us

It was our first time we returned to my grandma’s house as newly-wed. These are the food that different aunties prepared and we had a wonderful get-together. >.< Look at all those mouth-watering food. Happy Viewing!!!

Thank You to My Readers

Hmmmm..interestingly…I have received quite a number of thank-you emails from readers…thanking me on how much help my blog had given them….and how much time and inconvenience they are sparred…

one consoling thing was that after reading my blog, they feel that the mood swings and frustration tumbles they are experiencing are considered normal because they realise many other wedding couples like me and the rest go through it too.

Wedding couples, while planning their wedding, may experience happiness, joy, bliss, delight…and also feelings from the other end of specturms of feelings such as frustration, confusion, anger…even hatred…or even hoplessness…

We always want someone to hear us out and desperately wanting to share our feelings with our close ones…but sometimes, our close ones may not even understand…or don’t even have time to hear us out…

As much as this blog has helped you, I also want my Wedding Blog to benefit new readers and more couples who will be planning their wedding in the future.

I want to provide them an avenue to release their pent-up emotions…or by reading postings of feelings that you will be sharing later…

If you want to share your wedding-planning experience or similar experience you have heard from others, please fill in the boxes below…

Being In Love…how does it really feel?

Being in love…remember our first date…our first kiss…our first time we hold hands…our first time our eyes met…our first time… … …

Being in love means so much more…one can turn the world around or dive to the deepest ocean or pluck the moon from the sky just for the love one…

Being in love…also means doing whatever it takes to win someone’s heart…even doing something beyong one’s means…

When I looked around me, years after relationships…this special feeling of being in love dampened and soured…or almost vanished…

In the past, I have seen how some old couples cursed each other grumbling that they have married to the wrong person for the past 60 years…

Now, it seemed like the age has lowered so much. Once, I was in this MRT station and saw this young lady in mid-20s screaming and yelling and even hitting the husband (who was in late 20s). She was even hitting the husband..and right in front of their 5-year-old boy…oh dear…

Hmmmm…is this how love will evolve after some time?…

“If you want to draw a bird, you must become the bird.”

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There is a wise saying “If you want to draw a bird, you must become the bird.” It meant to really understand one thing fully, we must be that thing.

Everyday, we have hurdles. We find oursleves panting jumping over obstacles, only to realise there is another mountain to conquer. Oh my..we are almost short of breathes…dying…wanting to give up.

Everyday, when our spouse comes back home…after going through an unimaginable day of tossing in and out (or to be exact, being tossed around by others)…oh my…there is so much inner voices going on inside them…just cant wait to go back home to release the pent-up emotion…to someone who s/he really trusts…only seeking for a listening ear…only to forget the other party also went through a hellish day…not prepared to hear…to fully hear what his or her partner is pouring out…

There are many times we thought we really understand our love ones…only to realise at the end of the day we knew nothing…whatever we thought we knew was just an illusion…

There are alot of times we thought we knew how much s**t our partner went through and we thought we understand…we so carelessly and simply push away the feelings our partners are trying to explain when s/he shares about the problems s/he is facing…

what are some of the common replies when someone pours his or her heart out?

“It is okay”

“Don’t think so much, ok?”

“Things will be okay.”

“Don’t think so much.”

“Why are you thinking so much?”

and many more other examples that you can give.

What happen next? How do we react? Do we share more or shut off?

I believe we could never understand how torturous or uncomfortable when our partner said so. we have different definition of the same word and we understand different extent of discomfort.

Imagine yourself confiding with someone who you usually confide in. How often do that person can 100% understand what you are feeling or experiencing?

It is tough to fully experience what the other person had experienced. Anyway whatever had happened is already over. We couldn’t go back in time…

so what we could hear is from the story-teller…the person sharing his or her own version of the story…so why don’t we really listen with both our ears…and our heart…>.<