Now is 6.55pm…my heart is throbbing…hehe…very excited about tomorrow…it is going to leave a deep impression in my life…50 years down the road and when I remembered this day, how will I feel?

When I was waiting for my bus at a bus stop, I saw a grandpa massaging a grandma’s hands while they were waiting for their bus. My thoughts were…”they were very sweet!” and “Would I do that for my wife at that age? … I believe I will.”

At 3pm, I was at Junction 8 buying an extra white long-sleeve, a bottle of hand-wash and a red tie. It was very rush. I had trouble getting the tie ebcause not many shops sell ties. G200 was selling tie at $49 each!!! Seiyu was selling at $23.20 after 20% discount. So I bought it from Seiyu.

At 6.30pm, I had collected my flowers from the studio, 4 corsages and car ribbons for 4 cars.

1 medium bouquet of flowers for groom to bring to bride in the morning.
2 corsages were for me, in the morning and night.
the other 2 are meant for my father and since he is up there in heaven, I will give the 2 corsages to my fiancee’s parents.

My mother’s dress had a big flower. So, she doesn’t need.

Suddenly, I remembered I still need to give the hotel our bridal car-plate number. A few guests pulled out last minute due to some unforseen circumstances. I really hope that they can come.

To P: Not to worry that you can’t come. You can come to our gathering in one month’s time, ok? rest well.

To Q: If you are reading this, it shows that you are still concerned over Ju’s wedding and wantt o be updated. We still keep your seat open and hope you can come to attend our wedding. You mentioned you will be there for Ju and this is the most important time that she needs you. Eventually, the decision is yours to be made. Wedding management has caused some misunderstandings and we also don’t want things to turn out this way. Remember your seat is still kept for you…because you are Ju’s good friend. >.< I got to stop now as I need to go for a quick dinner. At 8pm, I would need to type my speech for tomorrow. Hope I won't blush or get too excited. I can do it... "a speech to thank everyone >.<

It is a mixture of feelings. At this point in time, I’m still rushing to do last minute’s stuff.

I just did a check at my closet and realised that I’m short of a red tie and a white long sleeve shirt. And I still need to get another bottle of hand-wash for my toilet.

I’m really glad and grateful that my mom has been helping me alot. Normally, it is really hard for Chinese to say “thank-you” to to their parents. The gratitude is still kept inside their hearts. Here, I want to thank my mom for helping me… really alot…from ironing my clothes, running of errands to calling of my relatives and other guests.

Straight after this post, I still need to help out with house chores such as vacuuming and mobbing the floor…

And very importantly, my speech in English, Mandarin and Cantonese…Oh dear…oh my…. >.< panic panic...

I promised her that I will make the 5th wedding present for her.

Of course, I won’t show the photo of the whole wedding present. It is a surprise for her. >.< Hope she will like it.

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On 1st December, we went for final fitting. Our appointments was at 7pm and we reached at 7pm sharp. But the studio was over-packed with 4 pairs of wedding couples waiting to do their final fitting.

By the time when it was our turn, it was already 8.30pm and we wasted 1.5 hour of waiting time.

It was really chaotic in the studio and the studio was under-staffed. Only 2 staff taking care of 2 couples at any one time. Plus, some wedding couples brought along their siblings, nieces, nephews and parents….oh my…it was as if the studio was going to explode.

There were couples complaining of their long waiting and there were constant apologies from the manager. Sigh…couldn’t really believe what had happened….”over-schedule

So the moral of the story is “Never over-packed the appointments”!!!

While waiting, I was super-bored. So I took some photos of the shoes my fiancee will be wearing on our big day!