When we were young, we have this ideal picture of our partner who we want to spend with the rest of our lives.

My expectation of my ideal partner was not high. As long as both of us are happy and healthy, this will be what I ask for.

My fiancee is a very understanding person and she loves me because of who I am. I have flaws, just like being another normal human being, and I have strengths too.

From what I see around me, many couples push to mould their partners to become what they think is ideal. And along the way, there will be conflicts, arguments and quarrels.

Who want to be moulded into somebody who we are not? Would you?

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My fiancee and I have communicated with each other, reminding each other that we are married to each other. We will try to be more loving and caring because now both of us have to take good care of each other.
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2 more weeks. Many months ago, the hotel had passed us this contract with the to-do list. One of the pointers was to contact the hotel coordinator (business executive to be exact) prior 2 weeks to our wedding date.

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During this week, we had some queries about corkages and so we decided to email the coordinator. And we received the following bad news:

“Good Morning.

Let me introduce myself. My name is “V” ( Business Development Executive ) – Wedding Planner. “S” is on long unpaid leave and unable to tell when she is coming back. I am assisting “S” for your Wedding follow-up and arrangements. I am glad to assist you and Jhong Ren for your Wedding preparation. You are in a safe hand and your Wedding going to be one of the memorable one ever… …”

Another change? Oh my…this is the 2nd change of coordinator in this year since February.
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Everyday, our bodies grow tired after the numerous pressure and stress we have to go through. My fiancee and I will take turn to massage each other’s neck, shoulder, hand and fingers.

There are a few advantages to this quality time that we spent together.

Massage can reduce or even completely remove the physical stress from the body.
By being massaged by someone you love, it can even indirectly show care and concern by your love ones. In addition, the time spent together can increase bonding and relationship between you and your partner.

You do not need a long time to do the massage. A mere 5 minutes to 10 minutes per day can do wonder to both body and soul. Apart from this, I personally feel it is a commitment to delegate a short time each other to feel emotionally connected to each other. So, it will add more sparks and fire to the relationship.

Below, I will share some videos that I have chanced upon in another web site.
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A moment ago, I saw updates from a bloggie friend who has updated her blog. She has just celebrated her 1 month anniversary. She has also uploaded a video to YouTube.com It is their wedding video clip.

Click on “more” to watch the video and the slide show.

(To enjoy viewing video, please pause the slide show below. This is to avoid lagging.)

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It has been about 3 – 4 months I have started blogging. I would like to take this opportunity to bring new readers to those more interesting posts. Happy Viewing!!! 😀

Sharing of wedding photos by Sharon

Lunch at the Japanese Restaurant and Purchase of wedding gift

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