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1 more month…stress and pressure gradually lifted off my chest and shoulders…i really felt lighter now…much lighter than before…you couldn’t possibly imagine what i have gone through living each day, with 3 times or even 10 times the pressure on me…really suffocating…for a moment, i had a real taste what depression really means…totally shut off…withdraw from people, even my love ones…absolutely tense up and feeling hopeless and helpless…prefer to be alone in the world of negative thoughts…in my world that everything seems to go wrong…
?now, as i have said, i felt better…thanks to the love that i have received from people around me…thanks to the angels protecting me…(hmmm….it is during tough times that i started to believe there are really angels.) thanks to my will power that has brought me standing upright again…thank to my rational thinking that things can eventually be better…thank the world that there is still HOPE…
i can never imagine that i had gone through so many ups and downs in my emotions during this year…being a high-self-awareness kid…im constantly aware of how my emotion is changing because of the changes in my family, my role and my environment…
i thought preparing wedding is a joyous occasion…blinded by the obstacles and challenges that followed behind due to culture clashes, expectation…
and power struggles, interpersonal conflicts, parent-child disagreement, inter-generational misunderstanding….woooossshhhhh…..all these can come tumbling down in small stones or as a BIG boulder…
but i have learnt to live a day at one time, settle one thing at one time, thinking one thought at one time…thinking positive thoughts all the time…and enjoying the process though sometimes the outcome may not be ideal…
hmmm….now im glad that i have survived all these emotional roller-coaster ride…if given another choice, i would like to go through again…
it taught me to set myself free…meaning be who i really am…the spontaneous me, the helpful me, the joyful me, the caring me, the loving me…being 100% who Jhong Ren really is…to laugh whenever I want, to cry whenever I want, to shout whenever I want, to scream whenever I want…>.< Go back to My Wedding Blog Home page…
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