My friend’s mother had passed away…

Another human had left this world and moved on the next…

From religion’s point of view, God had taken her…

At the moment, I had no idea what to blog about.

The news came this morning and I could still feel the uneasiness inside me.

I’m also not sure how my friend is feeling now…

When I start to think about my age (I’m about 27 this year), there is also fear in me when I start to see people around me aging and some leaving.

When we are at our age, we are scaling the corporate ladder, building our families, bringing up our children…

many times when we see younger children, they somehow make us remember how we were like when we were their age.

And now, some of us are married, others will soon get married…

time had passed so fast and we are all grown-ups now…

What if we imagine right now, our children in their thirties…how old will we be?

Lets add another 30 to our age and we will be 60 plus.

Oh my!!! It is really scary to the certain extent to think of ourselves having travelled most of our life journey.

Then, we may see our own children getting married…or even see our first grandchild…Hmmmm…quite a scene to look forward to…and by that time, the little baby in our arms may remind us of ourselves when we were babies…60 years ago…

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Just received a news that the doctor says “got to be prepared for the worst”.

A lot of thoughts and feelings rush through me now.

Know these few days, the topics had been quite heavy for some of you.

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I apologise for that. A wedding blog is supposed to be fun and loving.

Just like what we think marriage is.

Unfortunately, it is never true.

For those who are preparing your wedding or could be in the final lap know what I mean.

Planning wedding is full of hurdles. Lots of ups and downs.

Family conflicts. Different practices. Lots of expectations, visible or unseen.

I’m sure this wedding preparation journey had made you understand your partner better…

Knowing how he thinks, he works, his fears, his yearnings and so on.

Not to worry..there is an eternal time to learn about him.

(When I say him, I am referring to both genders. >.<)

At this point in time, behind my mind, I am thinking, dying is just like queuing up.

Friends queued up to get married.

Did you realise that alot of such times is also the times our grandparents grow really old and start to go too?
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