Some brides have emailed me their biggest headaches during wedding planning.

from targetwoman.com

The number one anxiety brides may have is the doubt if they have married the right man.

Marrying the right guy determines the happiness of the ladies forever in their marriage life.

You know it is just like taking the wrong move may throw you deep down into well and sealing the well later.

Happiness is very subjective. Money can make some women really happy. Others used benchmarks such as career success and relationships with their spouses.

There was a survey done to find out what type of men women want as their life-long partners.
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I promise to love you
Honour you
Comfort you and keep you in sickness
And in health
And be faithful to you
So long as we both shall live.

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Now is already 1.25am and Im trying to write a poem for my fiancee… I know I can’t sing and I can’t sleep now. :p so let me write something…

today is my big day and I won’t be blogging till Monday…so please bear with me…and be patient and I will try to post some photos of our wedding day on Monday…meanwhile..let me continue to write… 😀

Now is 6.55pm…my heart is throbbing…hehe…very excited about tomorrow…it is going to leave a deep impression in my life…50 years down the road and when I remembered this day, how will I feel?

When I was waiting for my bus at a bus stop, I saw a grandpa massaging a grandma’s hands while they were waiting for their bus. My thoughts were…”they were very sweet!” and “Would I do that for my wife at that age? … I believe I will.”

At 3pm, I was at Junction 8 buying an extra white long-sleeve, a bottle of hand-wash and a red tie. It was very rush. I had trouble getting the tie ebcause not many shops sell ties. G200 was selling tie at $49 each!!! Seiyu was selling at $23.20 after 20% discount. So I bought it from Seiyu.

At 6.30pm, I had collected my flowers from the studio, 4 corsages and car ribbons for 4 cars.

1 medium bouquet of flowers for groom to bring to bride in the morning.
2 corsages were for me, in the morning and night.
the other 2 are meant for my father and since he is up there in heaven, I will give the 2 corsages to my fiancee’s parents.

My mother’s dress had a big flower. So, she doesn’t need.

Suddenly, I remembered I still need to give the hotel our bridal car-plate number. A few guests pulled out last minute due to some unforseen circumstances. I really hope that they can come.

To P: Not to worry that you can’t come. You can come to our gathering in one month’s time, ok? rest well.

To Q: If you are reading this, it shows that you are still concerned over Ju’s wedding and wantt o be updated. We still keep your seat open and hope you can come to attend our wedding. You mentioned you will be there for Ju and this is the most important time that she needs you. Eventually, the decision is yours to be made. Wedding management has caused some misunderstandings and we also don’t want things to turn out this way. Remember your seat is still kept for you…because you are Ju’s good friend. >.< I got to stop now as I need to go for a quick dinner. At 8pm, I would need to type my speech for tomorrow. Hope I won't blush or get too excited. I can do it... "a speech to thank everyone >.<

It is a mixture of feelings. At this point in time, I’m still rushing to do last minute’s stuff.

I just did a check at my closet and realised that I’m short of a red tie and a white long sleeve shirt. And I still need to get another bottle of hand-wash for my toilet.

I’m really glad and grateful that my mom has been helping me alot. Normally, it is really hard for Chinese to say “thank-you” to to their parents. The gratitude is still kept inside their hearts. Here, I want to thank my mom for helping me… really alot…from ironing my clothes, running of errands to calling of my relatives and other guests.

Straight after this post, I still need to help out with house chores such as vacuuming and mobbing the floor…

And very importantly, my speech in English, Mandarin and Cantonese…Oh dear…oh my…. >.< panic panic...