b. 4 to 6 months ahead

-Design and order our wedding stationery. Book a calligrapher

-Purchase or reserve the groom’s attire

-Purchase, reserve or tailor the groomsmen’s and bridesmaids’ attire

-Purchase the wedding bands. Arrange to have them engraved.

-Pick your wedding favours. Order them or assign some friends to help out when making them

-Book a room for your wedding night

-Pick out ‘thank you’ gifts for your attendants and your parents

-Pick out gifts for each other

-Set up your wedding registry and have a friend disseminate the news among your friends and family

-Sign up for dance-lessons

-Order the wedding cake