a. 1 year to 6 months ahead

- Finalise the wedding date

- Work out the kind of wedding you want

-Set yourself a budget

-Work out how many people you want to invite

-Start compiling your gust list. Get a spreadsheet started. (use Microsoft excel)

-Book a licensed solemniser. You will need to get his or her written consent to solemnise your marriage before you file your notice of marriage at the Registry of Marriage

-Book your ceremony and reception venues. If your venue is outdoors, make sure there is wet weather option available. And should you need to rent additional equipment such as tables, chairs or tents, work out what you want or need and make reservation

-Book your caterer, florist, musicians, photographer and videographer

-Start shopping for, or designing, the wedding dress and accessories

-Plan your honeymoon if you are leaving right after the wedding

-Get yourself a spa package for those regular, monthly facials