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Recently, I read an article on house husbands, fathers who witness their babies every first.
These fathers took up the unconventional role of stay-home papa while their wives are out in the commercial world working.
It somehow is really strange. The more I want to be a house-husband, the more I see of such news about modern fathers staying at home to look after their little ones once after they are born.
How sweet!
Being a house husband is not easy. There are many mothering roles to be done from feeding the child to buying baby shoes for them, especially personalized baby shoes if you are willing to spend more.
I know nowadays mothers, especially the working moms, do not really fair well in how to take care of their babies.
But it is never too late to learn to take care of our young ones. We all need to start somewhere.
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I was looking at my own marriage and reflecting on where I want it to be in 5 years’ time.
How can I see the future? I must be insane.
If we can plan for our studies, career and holidays, why can’t we plan for our marriage.
Would I want my marriage to be just like anyone else?
Wife and husband work in the morning and they only get to see each other after their work.
Wife and husband deposit their young kids in child care centre and they miss a whole lot of their growing up.
Wife and husband are drained mentally and physically due to raising up of their kids.
And they feel strangled.
Is this what you want for your marriage life?
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Let me share with you a story.
“There is this guy who planned to have his wedding soon. But it is going to be a surprise for his girlfriend.
He has a job which offers not much for saving up. And he knows that if it carries on to be like this, his savings won’t be enough for his wedding.
It was not easy to save up for his wedding as you know, wedding is expensive. But this guy does not give up easily.
He plans his wedding at this date in his life time, so he makes it a point he will make sure it comes true.
He works very hard for 2 years, working in the morning in his full time job and having part-time which starts right after his work and it normally ends off at 11pm.
It was not easy and this tiredness and exhaustion carry on for 18 months.
It was not easy but the guy is committed to himself and his life and he has only a dream which is to have his wedding day as planned.”
Finally did the guy has his wedding? We shall find out.
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Marriage is a bliss. Everyone says that.
Commercials about weddings make them look so magical and care-free.
Weddings lead to a life of eternal happiness and romance.
Is it true for you?
For me, it is not true.
I am not saying I don’t like wedding. I love wedding and especially mine.
I love my wife too and everyday I told myself, “I can lose everything that I have but not her. I only have one her.”
Before my marriage, I was a carefree guy, in the sense that I can plan for my life and my finance.
But what happen after my wedding?
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My friends Stuart and Kloudiia are getting married this weekend.
I am so happy for them and they will soon be moving into another chapter of their lives.
They have created a wedding website which they posted their wedding venues and the time to reach. Plus, there are opt-in boxes for you to enter your name and email addresses if you are attending their weddings.
I think it is really convenient in the sense yoou can save the trees (no need wedding invitation card) and you can save your time (no need to go around delivering them).
Hmm, talking about the modern way of giving out invitations cards. You have the internet plus using sms from mobile phones. Wow! E-invitations!
In 14th December 2007, Singapore’s Changi Airport Terminal 3 hold a Paradise wedding photo contestand many soon-to-wed couples went snapping away with their photographers in the newly opened airport.
Stuart and Kloudiia were one of the pairs, having their photoshots in the airport.
I think the experience was a unique one in the sense the airport is newly opened and you don’t really get to have the chance of entering a photo contest prior to your own wedding.
And interestingly, they took this shot in the toilet. I think so…from what I interpreted from Kloudiia’s blog.
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One year after my wedding, I finally have time to meet up with some friends on Saturday night and it was a good catch up.
Two of us, including myself are married and we no doubt agree that our roles have been changing over time. And they still are.
Before marriage, we were bachelors always working for ourselves and we had the freedom to plan our daily schedule. We just have to work to bring in monthly income both for ourselves and our parents, at least for me.
I recalled while planning our wedding, it was not easy. I somehow felt the stretch in me, at least financially.
Finance was my biggest worry then and it still is.
Wedding took up most of my savings and drove my saving account to below zero mark. Luckily, my loving mother was helping me pay at least half of the bills and I still owe her the money.
After marriage, we have so much to plan for and these are the ones.
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