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How to Catch a Cheating Spouse: 5 Tips to Find Out if Your Spouse is Cheating on You

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from aprille

Most people don’t understand the nature of cheating within a relationship. Are you even aware of the slightest clue when it happens.

Most couples cant, even if it happens just right under their noses.

The person who cheats doesn’t easily fit into a single mould. There are those who will cheat once and never repeat the mistake. Some will continue the practice until they feel satisfied. The truth is never revealed despite the hiring of private investigators. Others make a lifestyle out of being unfaithful.

You must first decide how likely it is that they will repeat the same behavior over again before handling your cheating spouse.

Here are 5 tips to find out if your spouse is cheating on you.

1. Before you can find out your wife is cheating on you, you need to take into account any recent changes in her behavior. Women tend to feel guilty when they are in extramarital affair. And they behave differently too.

Is she buying new dresses?

Is she coming home late?

Is she spending more time in office?

Is she more loving towards you in order to cover something?

2. If you suspect your husband is having an affair, there’s two ways to approach the situation and here is how to tell if your man is cheating. First, you can go on an all-out, fact finding mission and try to gather as much evidence as possible.

Secondly, you can try to firm up your suspicions by gathering evidence to either confirm the affair or clear your husband entirely.

There are two extremes to it and I will personally choose the later so as to save your relationship or sometimes it may be a simple misunderstanding.

3. Another possible clue is your husband suddenly starts exercising or going to the gym. He becomes over conscious of how he looks physically. So keep a look out for this sign.

4. Popping out at strange hours. Perhaps working late nights when they didn’t use to? Or going to see some friend that you’ve never heard of?

5. If things the two of you used to share openly suddenly become private pay attention cause something is probably up. Your spouse may start password protecting computer activity. It is as if to hide something from you and not wanting you to see it.

If ever you feel you need help in finding evidence to prove your spouse’s guilt or innocence, the best way is to always hire a private investigator.


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6 Responses to “How to Catch a Cheating Spouse: 5 Tips to Find Out if Your Spouse is Cheating on You”

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    kate Says:

    In my opinion, infidelity in marriage occurs, when the other was not having enough time with his/her partner. In most cases, a person tend to cheat when they feel like their partner is not spending much time with them.. or if they feel like their partners’ attitude changed a lot. Although it’s not a good reason to cheat, and there’s no good reason to cheat.. sometimes we cannot blame these people.. when all they want is some attention from their partners.
    But I’m making exceptions to those cheaters who cheat not because their lucking of attention from their partners.. but they’re just not contented with what they have. So, I agree with you Aprille, if you feel like, your partner is acting weird.. better hire for a private investigator, or be the investigator yourself.. if you can’t afford it, with the help of your friends.
    Thanks for this post.. and good luck to your blog.
    :)

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    jaydee@wedding photographer sussex Says:

    totally agree with Kate above – it’s all down to communication, or lack of, between a couple. There’s always stages that come before betrayal, and if you are talking to each other and picking up on the signs it generally doesn’t have to come to private investigators…

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    Cameron Sharpe Says:

    Sometimes it is unfortunate that why people we want to love, choose not to love us back. I strongly believe that we all have a match in this word but need to wait until we can get a serious relationship with us and will last. When one attempt to a relationship fails, it simply meant to be. If you are affected with the pain because of the relationship, always remember you can recover it. This could be easily dealt with if only our emotions are not evolved when we start to feel strongly for someone but more often than not ,the heart rules strongly over our head.

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    Orly Ilacad Says:

    If you’ve been with your spouse for the longest time, it won’t be hard to spot signs of infidelity. The mere fact that you are suspecting, some gut feel or instinct dictates that something is wrong, you could check it out. Thanks for the nice article!

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    Jamie@infidelity Says:

    One of the biggest clues, if you suspect your spouse is cheating, is a noticeable change in their schedule. In fact, you may notice this long before the affair turns physical. Even when they are still in the flirting stage, they will set off alarm bells.

    If your spouse is cheating, then they have to make time to see the other person. That time isn’t easily acquired and almost always looks suspicious.

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    luke@web design leeds Says:

    good point, loose comunication, loose trust, loose everything

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