I Want To Be A House-Husband
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I was looking at my own marriage and reflecting on where I want it to be in 5 years’ time.
How can I see the future? I must be insane.
If we can plan for our studies, career and holidays, why can’t we plan for our marriage.
Would I want my marriage to be just like anyone else?
Wife and husband work in the morning and they only get to see each other after their work.
Wife and husband deposit their young kids in child care centre and they miss a whole lot of their growing up.
Wife and husband are drained mentally and physically due to raising up of their kids.
And they feel strangled.
Is this what you want for your marriage life?
I don’t want.
I’m now planning my retirement.
Yes! Retirement!
Erh, I’m still 28 and I’m planning to retired by next year and do the many things I want to do.
My dream job is to be a house-husband, taking care of my children 24 hours a day. I want to change their diapers, feed them milk from their bottles and be there for them when they first call “papa” or “mama”.
photo from The Mumford Family
I just want to be at home and not miss any of the day with my children.
I plan to bring my job home and yes, I can do my job anywhere and bring my online business to the next level.
I plan to bring my wife and children for a holiday of 3 months 2 times a year and see the world.
“This father must be insane!” you could be thinking.
Yes! I’m insane and crazy enough to plan everything ahead for my wife and children.
Most likely, my wife can quit her job and do what she wants.
For the past 2 years, I have been working really hard, building my dream. My wedding blog has a new purpose with my new mission on making my wife the center of our marriage.
So this is my new mission, I want to help soon-to-wed and newly-wed to make their marriages work and the husbands can go a step furthere, making sure they put in their 1000% to take care of their wives.
So what do you think about my new mission? I would love to hear from you. You can leave your comment in the box below.
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I am with you. Most people grow up to be afraid of their father. What happens if the father will be the centre of the world for new people for their early years.
June 11th, 2008 at 4:24 amIt needs maturity of spirit and kindness of heart to grow up a child.
This can make us better people.
Hi Nikola, thank you for your support…i think most working parents in this new era miss a whole of their babies’ growing up…and with closer families, we will all be better people
June 11th, 2008 at 5:47 am