I’m really delighted and exhilarated to have got in touch with my secondary school friend, Lee Yean.

My secondary four classmates had a gathering on last Saturday and sad to say, I couldn’t make it due to work.

From Lee Yean, I heard that one of my friends is pregnant (a lady of course) and other friends have become fathers of 2 or more.

It is really heart warming to hear that many of my friends are doing well and I still remember the times when we are still innocent 16 years old kids, struggling like mad in the top class for our school and wanting to do very well for our O-level exam.

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One year after my wedding, I finally have time to meet up with some friends on Saturday night and it was a good catch up.

Two of us, including myself are married and we no doubt agree that our roles have been changing over time. And they still are.

Before marriage, we were bachelors always working for ourselves and we had the freedom to plan our daily schedule. We just have to work to bring in monthly income both for ourselves and our parents, at least for me.

I recalled while planning our wedding, it was not easy. I somehow felt the stretch in me, at least financially.

Finance was my biggest worry then and it still is.

Wedding took up most of my savings and drove my saving account to below zero mark. Luckily, my loving mother was helping me pay at least half of the bills and I still owe her the money.

After marriage, we have so much to plan for and these are the ones.
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After having lots of fun at my cousin’s hens’ parties, the bridesmaids still had lots of fun carrying out the wedding games that they had prepared earlier on.

The inital scheduled timing for the groom to reached was at 7am. However, they didn’t reach till 7.15am. It was expected.

I did the same for my wedding. My brothers and I loitered at the void deck for 10 minutes before calling the bridesmaids that we had reached.

It was common sense to do it for most weddings. Most grooms would choose to be late rather than on time to give as little time for the wedding games as possible.

Even married couples had advised us to do that. So it was not unusual that the groom was late for my cousin’s wedding.

Back at my cousin’s home, the groom called only after 7 or I think it was the other way. The bride called the groom to ask him where he was.

She told the bridesmaids that the groom’s party was late and the bridesmaids added more weird stuff for them as a form of punishment.

Finally soon after, the groom arrived with his gung-ho brothers and he had to read out the rules to the games. (I posted some of the rules in the “wedding games” post)

I was stuck outside the door with the groomsmen as I had to take picture when the groom got off his bridal car.
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Say goodbye to singledom with a big big dash.

This is indeed what my cousin’s friend had for her.

We were catching up a few days before her wedding on last Sunday and she shared with us what her best gal friends had in store for her.

I only managed to catch a bit here and there and there were enough to leave me in awe and their celebration was super crazy in my opinion.

I have heard of stories of ladies having a private party which they engaged male strippers and had a wild wild fun into the late night.

I’m glad my cousin had lots of fun with her good friends around her and including some male dancers who were literally lap-dancing on her.

That night of excitement and fun was entirely free!

You know how they did it?

It was pretty interesting and I guessed only ladies can do that.

First she could sell her kisses plus condoms. Yes, condoms!
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Hope you have enjoyed the first post on the wedding games. The reason why I wanted to post it as the first post because of its entertainment value.

One of my blogger’s friend told me it was yukkie and super grossed to be eating the creepy crawlers as “breakfast”. She also shared that she was a bridesmaid in her friend’s wedding and the whole wedding game scene turned really ugly when the groomsmen were playing too rough and the bridesmaids were somehow offended. But this will be for Continue Reading »

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I remember the wedding games for me during my wedding. There were different types of food that resembles the 4 aspects of a marriage life - sourness, sweetness, bitterness and spiciness.

I remembered my wife’s bridesmaids prepared a breakfast for me and my groomsmen - sugarcane, dark chocolate, lime and small chili. It was really a memorable breakfast for us.

As much as we dislike the games we had, we still had to go through time, especially for me. I even remembered pole-dancing and one of my groomsmen acted as a pole.

How embarrasing! It was funny when I look back now.

My cousin’s fiance was not that lucky and so were the groomsmen who tagged along.

Last Sunday was her wedding and I reached her house at 6.30am.

Her sisters (bridesmaids) were already there preparing breakfast for the groom and his envoy.

Let me tell you the menu for each person:
1. One cup of lychee drink mixed with concentrated lime juice
2. One hamburger with chilli padi mixed with microwaved crickets and maggots
3. One slice of lime
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My cousin returned from Japan to attend her sister’s wedding on last Sunday. So the whole family came, together with her baby.

Playing with the baby is a stress relieving and fun thing to do. A gentle smile from the baby can drive all your worries away. This is what I found out while playing with him.

In fact in this afternoon, I was discussing with my mentor how to improve my Wedding Blog. The session lasted for 5 straight hours and I came to my cousin’s home with a pounding headache.

However, the moment I saw the baby, my headache amazingly disappeared.

So if you are experiencing lots of stress right now and may be having a headache now, take a look at the video below and I promise you that your headache will disappear.

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