“Life is boring.” most couples would say.

“There is nothing else to do.”

I personally believe there is so much things you and your husband can do together everyday.

1. Unwind Together
For a start, after a busy day at work, you and your dear can sit together over a cup of Earl grey and update each other about the days’ happenings.

Do allocate some time to share and hear from both parties so that both husband and wife have equal amount of time to share and unload their emotional barges.

We won’t want so much of over-talking from only one party, leaving no chance for the other to unwind at all.

2. Sleep Together
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I think it is only just to analyse why men want to get married too after I have done a post why women got married.

37 Reasons why Men Get Married:
1. To have a life-long partner
2. He has found his true love
3. It is the right time to get married
4. He is getting old
5. He has a big house and he is alone
6. He has kids from his ex-wife and has no one to help
7. He needs a free life-long domestic helper
8. He has too much money and time
9. He is sick of his previous wife or wives (In olden days, Chinese Emperors do this alot.)
10. Religiously, they can, just like the Arabs.
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There are many reasons why women get married. There are those that are more common while others are more controversial.

I got married because I strongly believe I found my true love and I want my wife to be my life-long partner. It is a commitment made to her to take care of her forever.

I know some friends who got married because it is the right time. (Only the brides can tell us when is the right time.)

In Korea, I know that women get married because they have to. Of course, there are some who found true love. On the other hand, there are some women who are match-made when they reached a certain age. Their parents will arrange their daughters to meet sons of their friends and the story starts from there.

So this is from the social point of view. Women get married because they have reached that stage in life which tells them they have to get married so that they can have a family really soon.

It is the social norm for them to do so because everyone else in their society is doing the same.

From the intra-personal point of view, women get married for many reasons. Some women get married because of sense of security. They want someone to be there to protect them.

Others got married because of fear of loneliness. They are afraid of growing old without someone to spend time with them.
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Sometimes, life is really unpredictable and exciting.

When you really believe hard enough, your dreams will come true.

Lately, some one asks me how much to buy me out of my bond.

I feel honored to have him asked me.

He is working for a very popular Small-Medium Enterprise which has million dollars of turnover each year and the number is flying by exponential figure.

The Director also asked me before how much to buy me out of my bond and asked me to join him.

As much as I want to cross over to their side, I do feel in a dilemma.

It is not easy to tell them that to cross over means killing me to bring my body across.

Of course, it is a metaphor, meaning how much I love my job.

I told my friend it will be priceless because we are talking about passion.
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Couples evolve from couple who are in love to teen couple to wedding couple and finally to married couples and hopefully, they always stay as loving couples till when they are old couple.

Some couples may become hot couples and end up as celebrity couples.

You realise that even during couplehood, there is a passage for them. And of course, there are some who turn out to be flame-extinguished couples.

It is not easy to sustain the flame. As loving couples who are madly in love when they first see each other, the flame is on number 11 in a scale of 1 to 10!

The teen couples are madly and deeply and sometimes, blindly in love.

They eat together, study together or even stay in the hostel together (though it is illegal to do so.)

Every where they go, they are seen as one romantic teen couple and the world seemed to revolve around them.

Likewise for office love affair, it seemed like there is always romance in the air. They are seen working together, lunching together, going to work together and leaving the office together.

Eventually, when the relationship died down, you may end up seeing only one does the routine alone.
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My friend Stuart Tan wrote a post on the relationship between relationship and business.

I always believe that a strong relationship starts at home.

For those men who want to succeed in business, find a good wife who love you and can take good care of your family.

Of course, in return, you have to respect and love your wives even more.

Do look around you at those succesful businessmen. Most, or in not all, have a stable and loving family at home. When they go to work, they are very assured that their families are well-taken care of at home.

What about those with problems at home?

Or let’s look at yourself. How do you feel when you quarreled with your girl-friend or wife and then you go to work?
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Hi, you know I have been blogging for one year plus and at this moment, the last check I had is over 550 posts.

For the benefit of my new readers, I started off my wedding blog because of pure frustration. A normal wedding site only show you the glamour side of wedding.

What about the pitfalls and don’ts?

For a start, here are the best few posts about wedding.

Wedding Hairstyles

Wedding Gowns

Wedding Photographers

Bridesmaids Dress

Wedding Helpers

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